Hot and Cold!

Dearest Blog Friends

I’m tired. Tried of so many things my boyfriend seems to be putting me through these days. It is kind of like that Katy Perry song Hot and Cold; in fact just like that.

Let us compare that song to his frustrating behavior:

You change your mind like a girl changes clothes
Yeah, you PMS like a bitch I would know
And you always think, always speak cryptically
I should know that you're no good for me
Translation: One minute it is all I need space and the next it is oh my gosh I miss you. Why don’t you want to spend time with me? One moment it is all I love you I want you forever and the next it is. I’m young and maybe I don’t want to be tied down yet.

'Cause you're hot and you're cold
You're yes and you're no
You're in and you're out
You're up and you're down

You're wrong when it's right
You're black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up

You, you don't really wanna stay, no
But you, you don't really wanna go, oh

'Cause you're hot and you're cold
You're yes then you're no
You're in and you're out
You're up and you're down

We used to be just like twins, so in sync
The same energy now's a dead battery
Used to laugh 'bout nothing, now you're plain boring
I should know that you're not gonna change
Translation: In the beginning of our relationship we used to have so much in common and I was happy. Now it is like everything he loved about me he now hates or finds unappealing. He always comes up with excuses for why I’m not giving him enough space. I should know that it is never going to be enough for him. He is always going to want more and more.

'Cause you're hot and you're cold
You're yes and you're no
You're in and you're out
You're up and you're down

You're wrong when it's right
You're black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up

You, you don't really wanna stay, no
But you, you don't really wanna go, oh

You're hot and you're cold
You're yes and you're no
You're in and you're out
You're up and you're down

Someone call the doctor
Got a case of a love bipolar
Stuck on a roller coaster
Can't get off this ride
Translation: I feel as if I don’t know what to do anymore. It is like a constant ride where he controls the tracks and the speed. It is always on her terms. He can never make up his mind whether he is happy or miserable in this relationship.

You change your mind like a girl changes clothes

'Cause you're hot and you're cold
You're yes and you're no
You're in and you're out
You're up and you're down

You're wrong when it's right
You're black and it's white
We fight, we break up
We kiss, we make up

You, you don't really wanna stay, no
But you, you don't really wanna go, oh

You're hot and you're cold
You're yes and you're no
You're in and you're out
You're up and you're down

Wow Katy Perry has some interesting insight.